I think we should begin by affirming that it is natural, for many of us, to think about our world as composed of different groups. We each have families, nuclear and extended. Neighbors and fellow citizens of our city or town. Each state or province is in turn composed of citizens of towns, cities, and counties. We could go on, but the point is, we cannot help but identify with different groups.
The challenge to individuals of conscience in an ever-shrinking world, is to balance our local or personal needs with those of people we will never meet in places we will never visit.
The question we’ve all heard, “Is it good for the Jews?” sounds to some like an outmoded vestige of a narrow world view. To others it is as simple as asking, “How will this affect my mother?”
As a rabbi I am deeply challenged by this question. I am asking, is this a matter of Jewish law? Is this a matter, since it is about Jews, that is per force answered by Jewish philosophy? Or, is this a place where outside of strict guidelines of philosophy and law we must turn to our tradition and interpret it as we see fit?
Clearly ancient and medieval philosophers saw the world as strictly divided between “us” and “them.” The needs of the Jews, us, always outweighed the needs of the non-Jews, them. According to this calculus, the value of democracy would take a backseat to the overarching value of the preservation of Jewish life. To be sure this stream of thought remains in modern circles. In some places it has become a rallying cry against certain relationships and concessions. In others it has been used to justify murder.
There are some more modern thinkers in orthodox circles who have tried to reread the us-them dichotomy. An us-them worldview was appropriate at a time when idolatry and paganism where prevelant. The people who were non-Jews had practices and beliefs that were anathema to Jewish thought and any relationship with them could not be tolerated. But today, when much of the world has, in some way, embraced ethical monotheism, the us-them lines are much blurrier.
We can redraw the us-them lines to maintain the seperation: those who love Israel and those who hate Israel. Another way: those who have in the past committed to peace and those who have in the past committed to war. But, I believe, that this type of thinking doesn’t really get us anywhere.
So what’s a Jew to do? Support the value of human freedom at the risk of supporting the very people who would destroy Israel? Or should we root for a cold-peaceful-totalitarianism that maintains order at the cost of oppression?
One answer would be - trust in God. This is a major challenge to some. It opens a can of worms philosophical debate about the extent of God’s involvement in the practical unfolding of day to day events. Some orthodox scholars would say all minutiae are constantly unfolding under God’s will. Others would argue that there is a significant degree of humanity’s free will that comes into play. God is there; maybe as a safety net, a guarantor or a broad strokes director.
If we accept this answer then we can say: God will make it work out for the best. It lets us off the hook.
I find this answer dissatisfying on many levels. I think that humans have to make a moral choice - not sometimes but all the time. One must do their absolute best to make the most informed decision that takes into account - Jewish law (halakha), Jewish moral values, and overarching values of human worth and uniqueness. In that morality we will meet God.
As you said in your question there should be no difference between what is good for the Jews and the democratization of the Near and Middle East. In fact it is probably the case that in the long term this is true - that is a political science question and not a rabbinics question.
Personally I think that our answers have to be an amalgam of pieces of all that was mentioned above: I would have the Arab world treated just as I would my family, with dignity and respect. I would hope that in the near future and not the far future that this would translate into a broad sense of reciprocal respect for all peoples of the world. In the meantime we should certainly be on our guard and prepared for whatever may come.
We should pray for God’s help - not only for the Jews but especially for the people of the world who love freedom. We should say an extra prayer for the people of the world who do not yet understand that freedom is to be loved. They should, speedily, in our days, come around to understanding the true will of God and the unfolding of history on principles of equality and human freedom. Amen.
Answered by: Rabbi Mordechai Rackover